Ask yourself, what have you not lost?
- Friends?
- Family?
- Relationships?
- Other peoples' respect?
- Self respect?
- Self esteem / self worth?
- Self belief?
- Honesty?
- Integrity?
- Morals?
- Trust?
- Peace of mind?
- Independence?
- Daily disciplines?
- Health?
- Physical fitness?
- Appearance?
- Your job?
- Work ethic?
- Driving Licence?
- Clean criminal record?
- House and home?
- Rational intelligence?
- Emotional intelligence?
If the alcoholic or addict does not seek help, all that's missing from the above is the word yet.
Keep using; you could lose all of these things and more.




